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3 Steps to Get In-Control of Your Dating Life and Find Extraordinary Love
The Brazen Breakthrough
Overcome your dating mindset blocks, build a badass strategy and find extraordinary love.
In The Brazen Breakthrough, you’ll learn how to own (and love) your “too muchness”, blast through your dating mindset blocks, define EXACTLY what you want, gather the tools to date with confidence and power, and build a holistic strategy (complete with a badass dating profile) to find extraordinary love, online and off.
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I'm Lily
and The Brazen Breakthrough was created for you if...
- You’re a badass woman who desires a clear path forward in your dating life.
- You’ve had no shortage of success in your personal and professional life, with one major exception: You haven’t found your person yet.
- You’ve swiped for years, found some *pretty good* dates, a few relationships, but nothing that feels like the real deal.
- You have tried restarting your dating life again and again… but dating apps are terrible and only lead to anxiety, bad dates and burn out.
- You’re sick of the conventional dating advice that tells women to stop being “so picky,” play the numbers game, and my personal favorite, “You’re too much, tone it down.”
- Most of your friends are partnered, and they don’t get your dating struggle. You sometimes wonder why it happened so easily for them and why it hasn’t come so easily for you.
- You’ve tried thinking positively, meditating, hell, you might’ve even read “Attached” or “Calling In the One” to understand what you’re doing “wrong.”
In January 2021, you probably made a resolution that THIS was the year that you were going to date FOR REAL this time and find your person.
Then coronavirus happened. Then you got engaged with the movement for Black Lives. Then the election was upon us, and finding love felt even more impossible.
Now it’s February 2021.
And after months of feeling out of control in so many ways, you know that finding the right life partner is one of the most important to-dos in your personal life.
The Brazen Breakthrough
A 16 week coaching experience to restart your dating life with confidence, clarity and control, leading to the best relationship of your life.
By the end of this program, you will have:
Illuminated your past relationship patterns and mindset blocks that had you feeling stuck and disempowered.
Identified your deeper, essence-based preferences to gain clarity and confidence in the sort of people who will make you come alive across the table.
Built an authentic system to qualify the right dates and disqualify the rest so you can be a fierce, boundaried queen in your dating life- online and in-person.
Revamped your dating profile to actually work FOR you to attract only the best.
Reignited your dating life with a powerful, custom strategy (leading to dates that make you feel like “Whoa, I didn’t know this existed.”).
Discovered how to increase the quality of your dates every time with our Date Feedback System, so you finally feel like the boss of your dating life.
Sharpened your intuition and self-trust skills so that you have confidence in EVERY dating decision you make, whether to bless and release, or take things to the next level with an awesome person.
“After diving into The Brazen Breakthrough, my dating life is like night and day. I met a partner who has become such an integral part of my life. He’s serious about maintaining a healthy relationship, communicates well, and treats me like a queen. Now I know that I deserve nothing less for my life.”
Maya
Washington, DC
A peak at what’s possible for you…
“The Brazen Breakthrough made me value myself.
I was so skeptical to work with Lily. How would success be measured? Could she really help me overcome my insecurities so I really could find someone who was worth it?
I decided to give this a shot because it was clear to me that what I had been doing wasn't working.
Through this program, I’ve had a mindset shift that has taken me from seeing nothing but bad and negative in my dating life, to positivity and gratitude. That is an amazing, smile-inducing feeling.
I value myself so much more than I did before this. Period. I know exactly what I am bringing to the table, and exactly what it would take to feel that I am matched in purpose and intention by the person sitting across from me.”
Zulay
New York City
“Since this experience, I feel as though my entire life has changed!
It helped me to realize just how much control I had over outcomes – whether in dating, life, or work.
I’m now incredibly optimistic, empowered, and confident. I’m so sure that there is a man somewhere out there for me, and I have the tools to make what I want happen. All of this has also propelled me to work on other aspects of my life that give me joy, energy, and pleasure – so I’m confident all around!”
Caitlin
Washington, DC
“My dating life is thriving.
Before The Brazen Breakthrough, my dating life was non-existent. I had just been through a difficult break up and had no idea where to even begin.
Whatever reservations I might have had initially were immediately taken away after meeting Lily for the first time. Lily is an incredibly genuine and thoughtful person who can not only relate to what her clients are going through, but has developed proven strategies that can set anyone straight.
She’s not an Instagram archetype. She’s quite the opposite - she's someone who has been there before, someone disarms you with her relatability. Lily knows what she's talking about!
Since completing The Brazen Breakthrough, my dating life is thriving and I am reminded everyday that the best relationship of my life is on its way.”
Alissa
New York City
"I thought working with a dating coach was a crazy idea…
Lily helped me feel safe to open up, courageous in asking for what I want and secure in my dating strategy. She brought a sense of playfulness and pleasure to my dating life, which I didn't know was possible. Working with Lily has done so much for not just my dating life, but my life in general.”
Yuko
New York City
“Since participating in The Brazen breakthrough, I am now incredibly confident in listening to my intuition and realizing that I’m limitless as a person. I especially ensure I’m not wasting my time and energy on situations that don’t serve me or bring me joy.”
Rajani
New York City
When I was stuck…
I was in a toxic relationship.
I made tons of excuses, stuffed my needs away and stuck around far too long.
I felt numb and hopeless. I was ashamed to tell anyone about my situation because I knew I was accepting less than I deserved.
Meanwhile, I was a top matchmaker at the largest firm in the U.S. Making “love” happen was literally my job.
There was a huge disconnect.
When I finally found the courage to leave this relationship, I didn’t need to be set up by a matchmaker (I saw that matchmaking didn’t work out long-term for my clients), my friends didn’t have helpful advice and my therapist wasn’t as action oriented as I wanted in my love life.
Date Coaching became the long-term solution I needed to heal from my self-limiting beliefs, discern what I actually wanted and build a strategy to find it.
This work then transformed the dating lives of hundreds of my clients, helping them find soul-quenching dates and mapping out the path to the best relationship of their lives.
I want the same for you.
What’s Inside The Brazen Breakthrough?
In 16 weeks, you will completely transform your dating life, feeling like a joy-filled, badass by the end.
Month 1 · March 2021
Illuminate
Unpack Your Romantic History
Take an intentional break from all active dating, and start a powerful reflection process using my Relationship Reflection System. This process will give you a new perspective on all of your past dating choices and past relationships so that you can have Oprah-level ah-ha moments on where you need to grow and what you need to change to find the most extraordinary relationship of your life.
Break Unworthy Thought Patterns
At the beginning of the Brazen Breakthrough you’ll learn the Brazen Thought Work Model so that you can start to transform your thinking about your dating life. This will not only get you unstuck from past dating patterns and dating mindset blocks, it will allow you to feel like an opalescent badass every day of your life. You’ll be armed with the tools to rewire your thinking to start seeing all of the possibilities in your dating life.
Claim Your Deeper Preferences
After that, we’re going to look into your deeper, essence-based preferences to identify what sort of person would make you come alive across the table. This process is really about giving yourself permission to want what you want on a deeper level. This isn't just a checklist of preferences. It is a deep and beautiful summation of what you desire from your future partner, which will increase your chances of finding them.
Month 2 · April 2021
Strategize
Craft Courageous Communication
Using your Essence-Based Preferences, we’ll come up with your bold and courageous communication strategy, including your best qualifying and disqualifying questions so you can emerge from this experience with a really clear system to know who is right for you and to bless and release those who are not (no more of those horror stories, no more wasting your precious time).
Revamp Your Profile
Using your new, empowered dating mindset and deeper preferences, we’ll rework your dating profile to actually work FOR you to attract only the right people. NOTE: Your revamped dating profile will also help you with in-person dating as well!
Build Your Boundaries
This is where you really start to get into the driver's seat. You will identify and put in motion the boundaries that you need to feel good in your dating life, so you can protect your heart time like a boss.
Month 3 · May 2021
Reignite
Mobilize Your Strategy
Let's get it started! Here is where the rubber meets the road. After taking an intentional break from all dating apps, you will be ready to re-enter the dating world knowing exactly what you want and having a strategy to get it.
Tune in with your intuition
After reigniting your active dating journey, you’ll begin the process of tuning in with your intuition and self-trust using our Date Feedback System. Checking in with yourself intentionally after every date will allow you to sharpen your decision making skills and you’ll see the quality of your matches go up and up and up.
Month 4 · June 2021
Propel
Date Like a Badass
This month is your implementation time! You will actively find the best dates of your life, continue to get weekly guidance from Lily, and be surrounded by your fellow Breakthrough members, lifting each other up and supporting each other on the journey of finding extraordinary love. This is where you will probably encounter empowering moments of blessing and releasing the wrong people for you (something that might have taken you years to decide before this process), and/or you might find yourself in the beginning stages of the best relationship of your life.
Celebrate Yourself
You now know exactly how to date with power and confidence, finding the best romantic fits for you in the process. You will never feel isolated in your dating life again because with these tools and this community you will know exactly how to take the right steps forward in your romantic future.
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When you join in March, you’ll get:
The step-by-step Brazen Breakthrough process, delivered in the most gorgeous, engaging, unconventional course you’ve ever seen. Plus weekly worksheets and checklists out the wazoo, so you can propel yourself forward.
Weekly Group Coaching led by Lily. She’ll guide you through this proven process, answer all of your questions, and give you the tools to claim the extraordinary you deserve.
A complete, step-by-step Dating Strategy Revamp. Based on your reflective work, the Date Brazen team will help you create your new dating profile to make sure you’re ready to get back out there.
Introducing your crew: You’ll find your besties in the most incredible community of single women in our group coaching sessions. You’ll be surrounded by other powerful humans moving their dating lives forward together, uplifting each other in the process. No more isolation in your dating life. We’ve got your back.
You’ll be given access to one lesson per week (excluding holiday weeks and Implementation Month!), so you’ll have the luxurious, unhurried time to transform your dating life from the inside-out.
Plus these bonuses to help you generate momentum!
Weekly Bonus Q&A Sessions with Lily
Outside of our regular weekly group coaching sessions, Lily will go live in our private Facebook group to help you get unstuck in a matter of minutes.
Two One-on-One sessions with The Brazen Breakthrough Mindset Coach, Imani
She’ll help you break through your dating mindset blocks, help you live in abundance, and hold you accountable to the results you crave.
A Mega-Supportive Facebook Community with fellow Brazen Breakthrough badasses
Meet your besties, celebrate your wins, and feel that high that comes from being with other women that *get* you, who are moving forward together.
My Go-To Messaging Guide
Never be stuck on “What do I say to this text?!” ever again. With this step by step script, you’ll have courageous, clear, and kind text messages to know how to ask someone out, bless and release, address a “ghost”, and more!
Before you Swipe Meditations
Burnout be gone. With this intentional pre-swiping meditation, you’ll get clear on why you’re awesome, what you bring to the table, and why someone someday soon will feel lucky to be your partner. Amazing matches, messaging, boundaries, and dates will follow.
Pre and Post Date Meditations
Use these to get grounded before your first dates, and celebrate yourself afterwards!
Plus you’ll be backed by
A 30-day Guarantee
Let me say this upfront: This program is the most comprehensive, step-by-step coaching experience of its kind for your dating life.
This community is hand-curated and is full of a diverse group of incredible, hard-working, committed humans. This process only works if you show up and do the work.
If after 30 days you don’t feel that this program is a fit for you, we will refund you the final three months of your experience.
IMPORTANT NOTE:
Only those who have completed all of their Month 1 worksheets and attended the majority of our group coaching sessions will be eligible for a 3-month refund. More details here.
The Brazen Breakthrough isn't for everyone, and we are pumped to serve the women who will most benefit from this program.
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Umm it’s 2021… and with everything going on, why is this a good time to invest in my dating life?
Is it normal to get help with my dating life? I’ve never done anything like this before.
Do you only work with women?
Is this experience *only* for straight women?
How old are the other women in the program?
Wait, are you a matchmaker?
What makes this program different?
Can you really get *me* results?
Do you have proof that The Brazen Breakthrough works?
What's included in this 4 month experience? What do I get when I join?
Can I join if I say “All Lives Matter?”
Yeah, but why do I need to pay for a good dating life? Finding love just happened randomly for my friend/coworker/cousin.
What if I don’t have time for this? I’m really busy…
How much time per week does this take?
What’s a dating coach again?
Do I have to use dating apps to do The Brazen Breakthrough? Dating apps really suck…
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Still “thinking about it?”
If you resonate with any of the following, you should schedule a call with me:
→ You REALLY want to find a partner (you just don’t know what next steps you should take).
I’ve got your back.
→ You know that if you continue doing the same thing in your dating life, it’s going to lead to more burnout and anxiety.
Time to try something new.
→ If other people’s dating advice never seems to work for you…
My humble opinion is that most dating advice is (unfortunately) trash… Your therapist has never been on a dating app, your friends just want to swipe for you, and the thought of going to a matchmaker is wayyy too Bravo-reality-show.
That’s why The Brazen Breakthrough was built differently-- So you have the tools to find extraordinary love on YOUR terms.
You’ve been single for a while, and with everything going on in 2020, the thought has crossed your mind: “Is this just a sign that I should just pack it in and stop trying???”
Schedule a call with me. Let me show you what’s possible.
SCHEDULE A CALLI am so freaking excited to guide you over the next 16 weeks…
This date coaching work literally transformed my life.
When I was a matchmaker, setting up hundreds, and also in a toxic romantic relationship, I felt completely lost. Unsure if more was possible for me, and overwhelmed by how to move my love life forward.
I saw that matchmaking was only working for 5% of the clientele, my therapist didn’t have good dating advice, my friends just wanted to swipe for me… I didn’t know where to turn.
When I started looking beneath the surface of my checklist, why I was ok accepting so little, and how my mindset was holding me back from accepting more, this date coaching work started transforming my life.
I felt confident in who I was and how I was dating. I dated with boundaries and a clear path forward. And found my life-partner, Chris, as a result.
And when I started coaching my matchmaking clients with this method, they started to find better dates and relationships than I or any other matchmaker could find for them.
The lessons I’ve put into The Brazen Breakthrough are the exact steps that I and hundreds of my clients have used to become our OWN expert matchmaker to find extraordinary love-- both with partners and with ourselves.
Here’s the one thing I want you to know:
What is meant for you will not pass you by. I’m over here believing that for you in Brooklyn until you can believe it for yourself.
If you desire a clear path forward in your dating life, you owe it to yourself to schedule a call with me to see if The Brazen Breakthrough is the best next step for you.
Should you accept this invitation and join us in this coaching experience, I can promise that it’ll transform what is possible for you in your love life.
I can’t wait to talk with you soon, you opalescent sunflower.
Hugs,
