CREATE A CONFIDENT AND JOYFUL-AS-FUCK DATING LIFE THAT MAKES THE RIGHT RELATIONSHIP INEVITABLE
“I’m in an amazing relationship and it has everything to do with this program.
Through. this work, I centered myself. I got clarity on exactly what I was looking for, so I was able to bless and release for the people who ‘might have been great’ but weren’t the right fit. And now, this relationship feels grounded and authentic and hot. Yay!”
- Stephanie
So, you're a badass human. That's a given.
Annnnnnd dating feels like the ONE place that is still "unfigureoutable" and out of alignment with your awesomeness.
You're not alone.
✨You’ve swiped for years, found some *pretty good* dates, a few relationships, but nothing that feels like the extraordinary partnership you crave.
✨You’re sick of the conventional dating advice that says: stop being “so picky,” play the numbers game, and my personal favorite, “You’re too much, tone it down.”
✨Most of your friends are partnered, and they don’t get your dating struggle. You sometimes wonder why it happened so easily for them and why it hasn’t come so easily for you.
✨✨You have tried restarting your dating life again and again… (see: apps, speed dating, done everything your friends, therapist, coworker, and that Tiktok coach suggested.) And dating still feels exhausting and a little hopeless.
✨ Up at 1am, you ask yourself: Is it me? Am I doing something "wrong"?
Imagine what it would look like if...
→ You felt calm and certain in your most powerful dating strategy, online and in person.
→ You unabashedly gave yourself permission to want (and have) EVERYTHING you want. No such thing as "too picky."
→ You were surrounded by other badass single folks who have normalized belonging in your love life.
→ Your dating life was an expression of your joy and agency. No more shrinking, you're taking up SPACE!
→ You were 100% confident that you would find extraordinary not in spite of, but BECAUSE of your whole self.
The answer is you, learning exactly how to be your own expert matchmaker with proven, self-trust-filled tools and fierce community.
CREATE A CONFIDENT AND JOYFUL-AS-FUCK DATING LIFE THAT MAKES THE RIGHT RELATIONSHIP INEVITABLE
By the end of this program, you will have:
Illuminated your past relationship patterns, identified mindset blocks, and detoxed from dating apps that had you feeling stuck and disempowered.
Identified your deeper, essence-based preferences to gain clarity and confidence in the sort of people who will make you come alive across the table.
Chosen all your intentional Q/D questions-- an authentic system to qualify the right dates and disqualify the rest so you can be a fierce, boundaried queen in your dating life- online and in-person.
Created a joyful AF, full of YOU dating profile that attracts the right people and disqualifies the rest.
Reignited your dating life with a powerful strategy (leading to dates that make you feel like “Whoa, I didn’t know this existed.”).
Discovered how to increase the quality of your dates every time with our Date Feedback System, so you finally feel like the boss of your dating life.
Sharpened your intuition and self-trust skills so that you have confidence in EVERY dating decision you make, whether to bless and release, or take things to the next level with an awesome person.
“After diving into The Brazen Breakthrough, my dating life is like night and day. I met a partner who has become such an integral part of my life. He’s serious about maintaining a healthy relationship, communicates well, and treats me like a queen. Now I know that I deserve nothing less for my life.”
Maya
Washington, DC
How does The Brazen Breakthrough work?
Inside, you'll find our proven, step-by-step system in the modules below, along with video guides and workbooks every step of the way.
Module 1
Calm Your Freakout (aka Caring for Your Nervous System)
STOP BLAMING YOURSELF
Dating is activating as hell. In this lesson, you’ll learn how to stop these freakouts in their tracks with the skill of self-compassion. This isn’t just “going easy on yourself”-- it’s a proven framework to decrease stress and increase resilience– two things that will help you get results faster inside The Brazen Breakthrough.
GET COZY WITH YOUR FEELS
This is where your dating feelings vocabulary explodes with brilliance. Identifying how you feel and identifying where that feeling is in your body with granularity is a proven tool to help you move through hard feelings with swiftness.
HOW TO FEEL ANYTHING
You’re getting stuck in your dating life because you’re pushing the hard feelings aside. This is where you learn to face them, process them, and actually move through them effectively, so you can get to courageous action (and amazing dates) faster.
Module 2
The Complete Dating Detox
DETOX FROM DATING
Delete all dating apps, bless and release your “roster,” get out of scarcity dating decisions, and learn how to get the rejuvenating dating rest. In this lesson, you’ll heal your burnout, get major clarity, and get to the best dates of your life afterwards with grounded confidence.
DETOX FROM OTHER PEOPLE’S DATING ADVICE
Every cousin/co-worker/Tiktok person has an opinion on your dating life. The problem is that you’ve stopped listening to yourself. This is where you strip away that noise and learn how to heal your relationship to your inner voice.
DETOX FROM DATING WORRY
It’s time to unlearn dating worry as your default. You’ll learn an evidence-based strategy to release worry and build new, powerful beliefs about your dating life, which will allow you to take massive action forward with confidence.
Module 3
Illuminate Deeper Preferences
RELATIONSHIP REFLECTION GUIDE
Time to heal your past patterns. This framework will allow you to see your past dating choices in a new light. No self-blame, all the self-compassion and growth. You’ll have Oprah-level ah-ha moments on where you need to grow and what you need to change to find the most extraordinary relationship of your life.
CREATE ESSENCE-BASED PREFERENCES
Time to ditch the rigid checklist and create your Essence-Based Preferences. EBPs are a living, breathing documentation of your desires. They’re a vocabulary to describe how you want to FEEL in the right relationship. And your unique EBPs will make you a magnet for the right relationship.
CLAIM QUALIFYING + DISQUALIFYING QUESTIONS
Using your Essence-Based Preferences and Lily's list of 100+ Q/D questions, you'll create your bold and courageous communication strategy. This will be your crystal clear system to know who is right for you in less time and to bless and release those who are not.
Module 4
Create Your Dating Strategy
JOYFUL AF DATING APP STRATEGY
You’ll learn how to get in charge of dating apps, so you’re never the victim of dating app burnout again. Choose the app that’s best for your personality based, build a joyful dating profile grounded in your Essence-Based Preferences and Q/D Questions, create boundaries that will protect your heart time as you attract the best dates for you online.
JOYFUL AF IN-PERSON DATING STRATEGY
This lesson makes dating apps optional. Learn how to confidently attract love in person with these three steps– Joy-Building, Co-Conspirators, and Approaching People. So you can have more fun than you thought possible AND attract the best dates of your life with intentional support from your loved ones.
Module 5
Reignite Your Dating Life (aka Start Dating!)
OWNING YOUR ATTRACTION
Learn Lily's "Attraction Buckets" system to get out of overwhelm and into clear, bold, consistent action. No more asking "Did I just say yes/no to the wrong person?" With this system you'll start deepening your self-trust in EVERY dating decision you make.
USING YOUR DATE FEEDBACK SYSTEM
After going on dates, it’s time to tune into your intuition and self-trust using our Date Feedback System. Checking in with yourself with this tool intentionally after every date will allow you to sharpen your decision making skills and you’ll see the quality of your matches go up and up and up.
SELF-CELEBRATION
Bragging is crucial to attracting someone who is super into you. With this tool, you’ll know exactly how to celebrate yourself as a STRATEGY for finding love.
The Brazen Breakthrough isn't about the "rules."
This framework teaches how YOU can get in the driver's seat, define what you want, and build a badass plan of action to attract it. Opens October 18th!
"Prior to this program, I was feeling desperate (and I didn't know how much my insecurity was impacting my dating life).
I came in thinking I was going to relaunch my dating life, which I absolutely did. And it feels great.
What I didn't expect was how much I am now building a life I love because of the questions and work I did as a part of this program.
I loved this program because it was self-paced. I could make the intentional time for it when I had the time. It also allowed me to take different weeks at a different pace-- because this work is deep.
I'm now walking into my dating life feeling confident. I now believe that what is meant for me will not pass me by. And leading up to meeting that person, I'm going to live an intentional kick-ass life. And I know the right person will be drawn to that." - Lauren
What's Included:
12 months access to the step-by-step, self-paced Brazen Breakthrough program, with 20+ bite sized videos, printable workbooks, and checklists out the wazoo, so you can propel yourself forward.
A YEAR of Monthly Group Coaching Calls, so you can get your face coached off, get your dating questions answered, and leave AMPED UP to trust yourself and find extraordinary. All are recorded and put in your portal.
Experience 2 live calls per month! 1 group coaching call, and 1 end-of-month call to reflect on and reset your dating life, coming in November. Additional calls coming soon!
12 months of daily coaching inside our Slack Channel to get coached between sessions and to build community + friendship with other members.
Bonus Live Training sessions throughout the year including an "In-Person Dating Training," Dating Profile Q&A, Self-Compassion for Dating, and more.
Your Dating App Detox Plan- a bonus module, workbook, and journaling guide to support you in taking an intentional break from the apps with clarity and power.
Your Joyful AF Dating Profile created! With Lily's system, you'll know exactly how to craft a unique, authentic, gorgeous dating profile that attracts the best for you.
Dating Profile Review - We are creating a new feature of Brazen Breakthrough to help you with your Joyful AF Dating Profiles. A coach will review your profile and provide written or video feedback!
Bonuses! "WTF to Say Next Guide", our Date Feedback System, Date Brazen Podcast listening guide, Pre and Post Date meditations, Visioning Meditations, and more extra special bonus trainings scheduled throughout the year.
Success after The Brazen Breakthrough could look like an incredible relationship like Helen, Stephanie, or Maya.
Equally celebrated success looks like…
✨ You feel grounded and calm in your dating strategy, you allow yourself rest often, you only go on dates with people who you have intrigue for. You are actually feeling JOY in your dating life.
✨You know you're making all the right moves in your dating life that will lead to extraordinary. Because now you have these tools and believe this truth: "When I trust myself, I'm doing the right thing."
✨ Your dating life is finally in alignment with the rest of your badass life. You have the tools and skills you need to believe what you want is available AND find what you desire.
✨ You set powerful boundaries often, and your time is no longer swallowed up with dating worry and swiping anxiety. You trust your plan.
✨ When friends & family ask and share unsolicited dating advice, you now confidently say: "I love you, and I've got this." You are LIVING your unconventional and self-trusting strategy.
✨ You know you are completely whole without a relationship AND you give yourself permission to own every single desire. You boldly ask for what you want often and out loud.
Plus you’ll be backed by
A 30-day Guarantee
This step-by-step, self-paced program, bonuses, and Q&A sessions are super comprehensive and massively supportive for your dating life. This process only works if you show up and do the work.
We know the The Brazen Breakthrough isn't the right fit for everyone’s learning style, needs, or strategy.
So, we have a no questions asked, 30 day refund policy. Within 30 days of purchasing, you may email us and receive a refund if this isn't the right fit. After 30 days, the refund option is not available.
My story
7 years ago, I was a top professional matchmaker, setting up hundreds, and was also in a toxic romantic relationship. I felt completely lost. Shoving my needs into a box. Unsure if more was possible for me.
Finding a partner who loved me well felt like a sparkly pipe dream. Wayyyy out there. Not mine. Not possible. I felt isolated from my friends and family who had “figured it out,” and I was deadly afraid of settling again.
Questions that kept me up at night: “Was I allowed to ask for what I wanted? (my brain said: “No way.”)
Were me and my needs “too much”? (my brain said: “Yep, tone it down.”)
Did people-pleasing and perfectionism have to be my default to feel safe??? (my brain said: “100%! Keep us SAFE.”)
And my body was desiring more. When I started looking beneath the surface of my checklist, why I was ok accepting so little, and how my mindset was holding me back from accepting more, this process started transforming my life.
I starting feeling confident in who I was and how I was dating. I felt joy in my single life. I dated with boundaries and a clear path forward. And found my life-partner, Chris, as a result.
After coaching hundreds of women to build dating lives that feel like an act of self-care, I know creating the expansive, joyful, and courage-filled love life you desire (including attracting the right person and BEING in the right relationship) means creating a plan of action in your dating life that feels like coming home.
The Brazen Breakthrough holds everything I've built over the past 5 years. It’s not about “single or coupled.” This is about how you step into your own your desires and claim your freedom.
The patriarchy has impacted all of us. And it’s actively gating your brilliance. Your freedom. Your pleasure. Your joy.
Time to call bullshit on those old paradigms. It’s time to create your OWN rules of engagement in your love life.
After this work, literally EVERY love life decision you make will be the right one.
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