Learn how to attract the right partner with a
joyful-as-fuck dating life
for feminist humans
“I’m in an amazing relationship and it has everything to do with this program.
Through. this work, I centered myself. I got clarity on exactly what I was looking for, so I was able to bless and release for the people who ‘might have been great’ but weren’t the right fit. And now, this relationship feels grounded and authentic and hot. Yay!”
- Stephanie
So, you're a feminist badass human. That's a given.
Annnnnnd dating feels like the ONE place that is still "unfigureoutable" and out of alignment with your power and awesomeness.
You're not alone.
If...
✨You’re sick of the patriarchal, conventional dating advice that says: "just be more in your feminine," "stop being so picky," and my personal favorite, “You’re too much, tone it down.”
✨Most of your friends are partnered, and they don’t get your dating struggle. You sometimes wonder why it happened so easily for them and why it hasn’t come so easily for you.
✨ You have tried restarting your dating life again and again… (see: apps, speed dating, done everything your friends, therapist, coworker, and that Tiktok coach suggested.) And dating still feels existentially exhausting and hopeless.
✨ Up at 1am, you ask yourself: Is it me? Am I doing something "wrong"?
Imagine what it would look like if...
→ You felt confident AF in yourself, your preferences, and your dating strategy. Even if you've never dated before or if you've just gotten out of the wrong relationship.
→ You settle-proofed your dating life, blessing and releasing everyone who is wrong with ease and no mind drama.
→ You unabashedly gave yourself permission to want (and have) EVERYTHING you want. No such thing as wanting "too much."
→ You attracted the best dates of your life with ease. With a flirty in-person dating life and an unbothered online dating life.
The answer to attracting the right partner, one who wants to build an equitable, awesome life together, is building a joyful, powerful AF dating life.
Learn how to attract the right partner with a
joyful-as-fuck dating life
for feminist humans
By the end of this program, you will:
RELEASE YOUR DUSTY RELATIONSHIP PATTERNS
Whether you identify as a "late bloomer" and have been shrinking from dating. Or you've just gotten out of the wrong relationship and are done with settling...
After this, you will no longer shrink from what you want, put up with shit from the wrong people, or blame yourself for being a human with desires.
CLAIM EVERYTHING YOU WANT WITHOUT APOLOGY
You will rewrite you love story as the main character. Knowing all your Essence-Based Preferences means that you'll be confident in everything you want and will attract the right, feminist AF people for you.
CREATE A MAGNETIC DATING STRATEGY
With this intentional in-person dating plan, you'll feel confident to unabashedly flirt IRL, you'll ask cuties out often, and joy building will be your norm.
With such a badass in-person plan, you'll have an unbothered online dating life with a joyful AF dating app strategy.
NEVER GO ON A BAD DATE AGAIN
With our Qualifying and Disqualifying questions strategy, you'll know exactly how to vet potential dates based on your Essence-Based Preferences quickly.
So you never waste a Saturday night (or months in the wrong relationship) again.
MAKE THE RIGHT RELATIONSHIP INEVITABLE
Because of this joyful AF dating strategy, you will attract better dates than you thought possible, bless and release the wrong people without mind drama, and will attract a feminist partner who is excited to build a life with you.
All of this means you'll know not only attract, but BE in the best relationship of your life.
“After diving into The Brazen Breakthrough, my dating life is like night and day.
I met a partner who has become such an integral part of my life.
He’s serious about maintaining a healthy relationship, communicates well, and treats me like a queen. Now I know that I deserve nothing less for my life.”
Maya
Washington, DC
The Brazen Breakthrough Framework
With quick, captioned videos, transcripts, and fillable workbooks, you'll get over dating stuckness and start attracting the right partner with one hour per week.
Module 1
Calm Your Freakout (aka Caring for Your Nervous System)
STOP BLAMING YOURSELF
You're getting stuck in your dating life because you're blaming yourself super hard.
This isn’t just “going easy on yourself”-- it’s a scientifically proven framework to decrease stress and increase resilience– two things that will help you meet the right partner faster inside The Brazen Breakthrough.
GET COZY WITH YOUR FEELS
With this lesson, the thoughts, "Will I just die alone?" "Is there something wrong with me?" will no longer feel true.
The tool I teach in a lesson scientifically proven tool so you have your back more fiercely and so you become unstoppable to meet the right partner.
HOW TO FEEL ANYTHING
This lesson will make you an unstoppable, powerful force in your dating life.
This lesson will mean no dating freak out takes you out of pursuing your desire. It means that dating goes from feeling like a soul-suck, to an act of self-care.
Module 2
The Complete Dating Detox
DETOX FROM DATING APPS
Delete all dating apps to release dating scarcity for good. This detox makes clients become a magnet for easeful dates.
In this lesson, you’ll heal your dating burnout, tune in with your inner voice, and get fully prepared to date with self-trust and confidence.
DETOX FROM OTHER PEOPLE’S DATING ADVICE
This is where you take your power back.
Every cousin/co-worker/Tiktok person has an opinion on your dating life. Release toxic positivity and rigid rulesy dating advice from people who have an opinion.
This is where you strip away that noise and get back to creating a plan that actually works for YOU.
DETOX FROM DATING WORRY
Dating worry is the reason dating feels so intolerable.
In this lesson, you get free.
It’s time to unlearn dating worry as your default. You’ll learn an evidence-based strategy to release worry and build new, powerful beliefs about your dating life, which will allow you to start attracting the right dates and the right relationship.
Module 3
Illuminate Deeper Preferences
RELATIONSHIP REFLECTION GUIDE
Time to release the dusty, crusty beliefs about yourself and what's possible in your love life.
This framework will allow you to see your past dating patterns with compassion. You’ll have breakthroughs on what you need to change to attract the right partner next. Whether you've never been in a relationship, or you're just out of the wrong one.
CLAIM QUALIFYING + DISQUALIFYING QUESTIONS
This one lesson alone will help you vet people within 1-2 messages or just one conversation, on apps and IRL. With Q/D Questions, you will never go on a bad first date again. You'll vet someone quickly and will know immediately if someone is worthy of your heart time.
You will be able to distinguish just “good on paper” vs. ACTUALLY AMAZING dates by asking one or two Q/D questions.
CREATE ESSENCE-BASED PREFERENCES
Essence-Based Preferences are the ROOT of your intentional dating strategy. They are exactly what will magnetize the right partner to you. They will revolutionize how you ask for what you want and attract it with ease.
They are your love life vocabulary, deeper than your "checklist," and SO much more specific than "Someone nice with a job." This strategy is one of the main reasons my clients land in the best romantic relationships of their lives.
Module 4
Create Your Joyful AF Dating Strategy
IN-PERSON DATING STRATEGY
This lesson makes dating apps optional. Learn how to confidently attract love in person with these three steps– Joy-Building, Co-Conspirators, and Approaching People. So you can have more fun than you thought possible AND attract the best dates of your life with intentional support from your loved ones.
DATING APP STRATEGY
You’ll learn how to get in charge of dating apps, so you’re never the victim of dating app burnout again. Choose the app that’s best for your personality based, build a joyful dating profile grounded in your Essence-Based Preferences and Q/D Questions, create boundaries that will protect your heart time as you attract the best dates for you online.
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Your Joyful AF Dating Profile Review
Inside The Brazen Breakthrough, we help you become unbothered by dating apps to attract the best people for you.
We have a personalized JOYFUL AF Dating Profile Review feature, where you submit your profile and get a personalized video back with feedback on how to make the profile MORE YOU, more specific, more clear, more magnetic.
You also get direct feedback on your boundaries and strategy to make sure you’re ready to attract more than you thought possible.
Unbothered dating app strategy means you will be the bossy, glamorous dominatrix of the dating app.
It’s time for you to be the boss.
Module 5
Reignite Your Dating Life (aka Start Dating!)
BLESS AND RELEASE
After this lesson, you'll have the skills to Bless and Release the wrong people with ease and without mind drama.
You'll know exactly what to say and when to say it with text and communications scripts– from an online match you want to bless and release, to blessing and releasing someone 4 dates in.
When you are able to bless and release with ease, you'll be in the driver’s seat of finding the right partnership fast.
USING YOUR DATE FEEDBACK SYSTEM
After every single date you go on inside The BB (whether it be first, second, third+), you’ll fill out our Date Feedback System.
This is my custom spreadsheet built after years of professional matchmaking where you will sharpen your dating intuition and self-trust.
Every date will be better than the last.
THANK YOU, MORE PLEASE CHALLENGE
This Challenge will have you attracting a juicy in-person date within one week. With this framework, you'll be swimming in actual evidence that the partnership you crave exists and is coming right now.
This challenge is how you will feel hope daily + become a magnet for the best dates of your life.
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Date Feedback Review
Submit your Date Feedback after dates, and we'll evaluate your date, your vetting strategy and will share video feedback on how to either:
Attract a better date next time with proven strategies and next steps. Or,
How to take it to the next level with the person you’re dating.
This process will ensure that every single date you go on inside The Brazen Breakthrough is better than the last, no matter what.
It will ensure that any relationship you attract will be the RIGHT one for you.
The Brazen Breakthrough will give you the exact frameworks, coaching, and community to attract the right partner with a joyful AF dating life as a feminist badass.
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Our Feminist AF approach works
We believe that dating is a microcosm of our well-being. It's every hope, joy, dream, fear, insecurity, desire that we have as humans.
Feminist dating means that you will never settle again.
It means that you'll release the patriarchal bullshit that taught you to play small and shrink.
It means you will settle-proof your dating life.
It means that you'll learn how to confidently attract the RIGHT partner for you-- one who is excited to build an equitable, sexy, joyful relationship together.
Inside this program, we are unapologetically progressive, anti-racist, trans-inclusive, and believe that love is love.
And a percentage of your membership will go to abortion funds and The Loveland Foundation.
We believe the way we do one thing is the way we do everything. And if you resonate with this, The Brazen Breakthrough will change your life.
What's Included:
12-month access The Brazen Breakthrough Course
A proven, step-by-step, feminist framework that has helped hundreds create joyful-as-fuck dating lives that lead to love.
With quick, captioned video lessons, fillable workbooks, and Type-A checklists so you can make quick progress toward the best relationship of your life.
12 months of Group Coaching Calls, 3x per month.
→ You log onto Zoom for our hour-long group coaching call and are welcomed by a joyful dance party.
→ Me or one of our incredible co-coaches will be dancing and welcoming you in the room.
→ You’ll share a brag in the chat (our customary start) and fellow members will LIGHT up the chat to celebrate you.
→ You’ll see your new single bestie and accountability buddy in the Zoom room and will DM her, getting SO hyped for this party of a coaching session.
If you want 1:1 coaching, all you have to do is raise your virtual hand.
All sessions are recorded and put in your portal.
12 months of daily coaching in Slack
We give daily coaching in our private Slack channel. Here’s what that looks like:
→ When you're freaking out, stuck in scarcity, or freaked out that a new relationship is going well and you’re having trouble trusting yourself.
→ When you're feeling lonely and want community, friendship, and belonging with other single, feminist badasses.
→ When you want to be celebrated for your wins...
Come to our Slack Channel to get coaching, community, and celebration. Every day.
Bonuses
→ Live Call Replays + Private Podcast: Watch previous coaching calls where we coach on everything from breaking past dating patterns, to dealing with ghosting and rejection, to how to leave a date as soon as you know it’s not right, to how to deal when you’re starting the best relationship of your life (and your nervous system is freaking out).
→ Pre and Post Date Meditations
→ WTF to Say Next Guide: This step-by-step guide has text scripts for everything overwhelming in your dating life to make things easy for you. From blessing and releasing to asking someone out, I’ve got a script for it.
→ Dating Profile Review: You submit your dating profile created with our unique process and get a personalized video back with feedback on how to make the profile MORE YOU, more specific, more clear, more magnetic.
→ Date Feedback System Review: Submit your Date Feedback after dates, and we'll evaluate your date, your vetting strategy and will share video feedback on how to either:
Attract a better date next time with proven strategies and next steps. Or,
Take it to the next level with the person you’re dating.
This process will ensure that every single date you go on inside The Brazen Breakthrough is joyful and better than the last, no matter what.
"Prior to this program, I was feeling desperate (and I didn't know how much my insecurity was impacting my dating life).
I came in thinking I was going to relaunch my dating life, which I absolutely did. And it feels great.
What I didn't expect was how much I am now building a life I love because of the questions and work I did as a part of this program.
I loved this program because it was self-paced. I could make the intentional time for it when I had the time. It also allowed me to take different weeks at a different pace-- because this work is deep.
I'm now walking into my dating life feeling confident. I now believe that what is meant for me will not pass me by. And leading up to meeting that person, I'm going to live an intentional kick-ass life. And I know the right person will be drawn to that." - Lauren
Brazen Breakthrough Brags
Success after The Brazen Breakthrough could look like an incredible relationship like Helen, Stephanie, or Maya.
Equally celebrated success looks like…
✨ You feel grounded and calm in your dating strategy, you allow yourself rest often, you only go on dates with people who you have intrigue for. You are actually feeling JOY in your dating life.
✨You know you're making all the right moves in your dating life that will lead to extraordinary. Because now you have these tools and believe this truth: "When I trust myself, I'm doing the right thing."
✨ Your dating life is finally in alignment with the rest of your badass life. You have the tools and skills you need to believe what you want is available AND find what you desire.
✨ You set powerful boundaries often, and your time is no longer swallowed up with dating worry and swiping anxiety. You trust your plan.
✨ When friends & family ask and share unsolicited dating advice, you now confidently say: "I love you, and I've got this." You are LIVING your unconventional and self-trusting strategy.
✨ You know you are completely whole without a relationship AND you give yourself permission to own every single desire. You boldly ask for what you want often and out loud.
Your dating life deserves your attention.
Not because you are broken (you're not).
But because how you pursue your desires matters to your well-being.
You deserve a clear path to attracting love as the badass feminist you are.
And that's what you'll get inside The Brazen Breakthrough.
You'll see your progress toward the right relationship every day...
We have created a fun game to help every single client attract the right partner with a joyful-as-fuck dating life.
It's called Brazen Breakthough Bingo!
Each card represents transformative milestones inside The Brazen Breakthrough, measuring your progress and gathering evidence of your growth along the way. Stay motivated, see your progress, and celebrate every win as you create your most confident + joyful-as-fuck dating life.
The Investment
Pay One Time
$2,000
5% discount
Payment Plan
$420 per month
For 5 Months
My story
8 years ago, I was a top professional matchmaker, setting up hundreds, and was also in a toxic romantic relationship. I felt completely lost. Shoving my needs into a box. Unsure if more was possible for me.
As a "late bloomer" who had settled again and again for toxic situationships, finding a loving partner felt like a sparkly pipe dream. Wayyyy out there. Not mine. Not possible. I felt isolated from my friends and family who had “figured it out,” and I was deadly afraid of settling again.
I looked around for help. My therapist hadn't dated in 30 years, my friends just told me to download another dating app, and I wanted something deeper than a setup. That's when I started looking beneath the surface of my checklist, why I was ok accepting so little, and how my mindset was holding me back from accepting more, this process started transforming my life.
I was my first client.
With this process that now is The Brazen Breakthrough, I starting feeling confident, joyful, and flirty as hell in my dating life. And ultimately, this process is what attracted my husband, Chris.
After coaching hundreds of women to build dating lives that feel like an act of self-care, I know creating the expansive, joyful, and courage-filled love life you desire (including attracting the right person and BEING in the right relationship) means creating a plan of action in your dating life that feels like coming home.
After joining The Brazen Breakthrough, you'll know every single preference, you'll release dating worry as your default, you'll know exactly how to attract the right people for you-- online and in-person, you'll feel peace and confidence in every dating decision you make. And the right relationship will follow.
Add My Name to the Waitlist!All your hot questions
(and my answers) 🔥
Is it normal to get help with my dating life? I’ve never done anything like this before.
Is this program only for women?
I'm disabled. Will this program be accessible to me?
Why do I have to do all this work and men don't?
What if I'm really busy? How much time does this take?
I'm queer, is this right for me?
How old are other members?
How does this program help me attract better dates?
What if I've done tons of therapy- what will this give me?
More Brazen Breakthrough Wins
"Joining the Brazen Breakthrough shifted my mindset from negative thoughts to reframing my thoughts. I'm feeling really positive and I'm not as anxious. I never would have thought 6 months ago I would be courageous enough to ask a guy out that I thought was so hot.
I brought a lot of the workbooks to therapy with me. I feel like it helped us connect a little bit more and she could understand me a little bit better and where I was coming from with this relationship aspect.
Once I got into the Brazen Breakthrough, I realized, “Oh, everyone's in the same spot as me.” We're all here for the same reason. We're all coming from different places, but it's kind of for the same reason.
It's been a whole life change and it's not just about the relationships. You know, it's everything else. And the relationship and the dating is like icing on the cake."
-Felicia
"I joined The Brazen Breakthrough because, even though I’d done so much work on the rest of my life, dating was the one place I didn’t feel supported. Because of the Brazen Breakthrough, I broke a 15 year pattern of settling and am now going on the best dates of my life. I’m now pursuing my joy differently, asking for what I want directly, setting bold boundaries that protect my heart time. I now have amazing, new single friends from this container and a juicy, joyful, in-person dating life that I know will lead to the right people for me."
-Chloé
"I'm seeing so much more joy in all of it.
The growth that I've seen in myself and the way that it's changed who I am and all aspects of my life has been like totally worth it.
Before the Brazen Breakthrough I was having a hard time trusting myself to even take myself to the next step, and now I'm like, 'Oh, no, I can think 5 steps down the line and trust I'll get there.'
If you found Lily or the Brazen Breakthrough, it’s my belief that it’s destined to be."
-Ellie
"I feel like after going through the Brazen Breakthrough program, I have really changed the way that I show up in a relationship. I'm in a relationship and I’m actually about to move in with my BF that I met after doing the work in BB.
I took the energy of the program in and brought it to other areas of my life. That frees up more space for the good stuff in life and the things that you want to spend energy on. I had never spent money on myself for something like this before.
And I think with the Brazen program, it's such a refreshing perspective on how dating can be joyful–and even though for me–it hadn't felt like that for a really long time."
"The coursework alone made the program worth the investment for me. Taking the time to figure out my essence-based preferences and to reflect on how I want to FEEL around a partner was life changing for me.
I met someone about halfway into my time in the program. Focusing on how I wanted to feel allowed me to be really present with this person, which gave me the space to recognize that it felt really fucking good to be around him. (Not to mention, this man keeps doing my dishes and making my bed when I’m not looking!) The Brazen Breakthrough helped me figure out and claim everything I desired in a partner, and I believe that knowing—and naming—what I desired really did help me find it.
I would be lying if I said that getting into the best relationship of my life wasn’t what I was hoping to get out of the Brazen Breakthrough. But this program has brought me so much more than that! I could probably write a treatise on all the reasons the Brazen Breakthrough is the best thing a single human can do for their dating life, but I think what has been most transformative is how much I’ve learned about myself and what’s important to me. This growth has reverberated into areas of my life beyond dating, and I will be forever grateful to you and this program for helping me grow so much over the last year!"
-Mishi
"I Identified as a long-time single lady. That was a core part of my identity. I didn't really start dating until I was about 30. There was a lot of stress around the idea of – if I go out with more people, if I just go on more dates, if I'm on more apps, then eventually something will happen and I just have to give people a chance and I just have to keep pushing.
What I've developed through the program is the belief that, actually, I take good care of myself. I make good decisions about a lot of things! I've felt for years that I didn't make good decisions about dating, that it was my fault I was single. Having the permission and the framework of the Brazen Breakthrough helped me to question that and to realize, 'No, actually I do make good decisions.' I now feel in control, like I can pursue what I want to pursue."
-Anna
"Dating was hard. As a therapist, it was hard to give myself the time I needed to get what I wanted out of my dating life. So, I skimmed by and scrolled through apps which led to a cycle of disappointment that felt very tiring and wasn't getting me anywhere.
I was nervous to join. I am all about growth and doing the inside-out work. Dating felt more vulnerable as if I should have already arrived. I knew I would have some shame to work through in this area of my life and it's vulnerable to ask for help with something that feels hard.
I really felt I had so much support through the weekly group meetings and the incredible action plan.
It all really helped me process and move forward in my dating life.
I would say if this is something you know you need- DO IT. It was a big investment for me and because of that I put my time and energy into it and truly feel more clear, updated and empowered in my life.
Success now looks like: Showing up as I am, embodying my confidence in who I am and what I'm looking for in a dating relationship."
- Liz