First of all, it makes sense why you’d have this question. In our patriarchal society, we are constantly told that we "should be working harder, pushing more, figuring it out ALL on our own."

Gorgeous friend, if you desire support and guidance on your dating journey from an expert like me, then the real question is: How supported can you stand to let yourself be?

After coaching hundreds, I can say with certainty that there’s nothing “normal” about us. We are fierce, successful, unapologetic, complicated, and beautifully “too much.” If you resonate with this, I hope you'll join us in The Brazen Breakthrough.

Nope. This program is for femmes, women, and people who resonate with our feminist, unconventional, self-trusting Brazen Breakthrough method of dating.

You are welcome here.

We are working hard to make sure this experience is accessible to all who feel led to join us. As such, all of the course videos contain captions and transcripts.

Most of our video lessons are less than 10 minutes long.

If you have a specific need requirement that isn't met by our current course, please reach out to [email protected]. We'd love to hear from you to improve this experience for all.

If you want to be with a man, this message is for you. 

A lot of men do indeed suck. 

Both/and I’m here to teach you how to magnetize the emotionally intelligent, kind, feminist you desire.

I want you to stop centering the men who are WRONG for you in your dating life. 

You’re going on mediocre dates, ingesting your friend’s dating horror stories, staying in “just ok” relationships far too long, or stopping your dating life altogether because of the people who were wrong for you. 

Here’s how my clients have attracted the emotionally intelligent, therapy-going, kind men they are now partnered with:

Essence-Based Preferences.

EBPs mean you are finally owning and acknowledging EVERY desire. 

Inside The Brazen Breakthrough, knowing your Essence Based Preferences will settle proof every corner of your dating life.

So when you do come across men who are WRONG for you, you will be unbothered by them.

So you never go on a date with an emotionally intelligent man ever again. 

So you will never be in the wrong relationship ever again. 

In knowing and asking for your EBPs out loud and often, you will magnetize the right kind of people for YOU. 

✨ Like my client, Maddie, who because she knew her EBPs attracted a man who loved talking about his therapy breakthroughs (and asked about hers) on their first date. (they just got married last year)

✨Like my client, Erica, who because she knew her EBPs attracted a man who picked up her favorite bagel order at 7am after she had a hard week of work. (they’ve been together 2+ years)

✨Like my client, Stephanie, who because she knew her EBPs attracted a man who proactively, thoughtfully planned every date around her likes and desires. (they just had a beautiful baby together)

Before joining The Brazen Breakthrough, all of them doubted that the kind of emotionally intelligent, vulnerable, kind man they wanted to be with existed.

And upon the invitation, they joined The BB because they wanted to center THEMSELVES.

They wanted to take up more space with their desires. 

They wanted to heal their patterns of shrinking in romantic relationships and attracting emotionally unavailable men.

So they joined us. Claimed their EBPs. And are now in the right relationships.

All you need is 1 hour per week to get results inside The Brazen Breakthrough.

That’s it.

Most of The BB clients have busy schedules– we have teachers, single moms, clerks for federal judges, surgeons, and entrepreneurs– All members are the most badass of people who have packed schedules.

They joined because their desire for the love life of their dreams was greater than their fear of “being too busy.”

And if you say “My schedule is too hectic!” then I would bet that you’re not prioritizing yourself enough in your calendar.

Or you’re assuming that dating has to be a soul-sucking part-time job. 

Your desire for the right relationship deserves your attention, investment, and action. 

Not because you’re lacking in ANY way (you’re not).

But because you want to find the best relationship of your life (without the patriarchal, self-blamy, miserable dating process).

So, stop using your calendar as an excuse not to try or to take action. 

    Finding the best relationship of your life with a joyful dating life will change your whole life. 

Here’s what this will look like each week: 

✨2 minutes: When you join us, you’ll get an onboarding guide that will tell you exactly where to get started.

✨30 seconds: You’ll know exactly which short video and workbook to complete first.

✨15 minutes: This short lesson + workbook will feel more fun and life-changing than you expect. So you’ll want to keep going.

✨5 minutes: You’ll hop into The BB Slack for 5 minutes to celebrate your progress with your new single besties.

✨30 minutes: You’ll come to our weekly group coaching sessions for 1:1 coaching when needed to get unstuck and will learn how to get into the best dates for you, quickly. 

✨You’ll have your in-person dating plan literally built into your calendar, so your joy building activities are planned, your co-conspirator chats are scheduled, and dating app time feels like a no-pressure blip in your day. 

→ Basically the time you’d be on a mediocre date,

→ Or the time you’d spend obsessing over whether or not you should text them back

→ Or the time you spend talking in circles about dating with your therapist— 

You will instead spend on creating a more juicy, brilliant, self-trusting, confident, joyful dating life that will lead to the best relationship of your life.

I’m queer. And there are also many queer Brazen Breakthrough members.  

This space was built differently from the patriarchal, heteronormative, “conventional” dating standard. 

Inside The Brazen Breakthrough, you will be supported in claiming EXACTLY what and who you desire, and attracting them with ease. 

So, how do we create a brave coaching space for everyone (queer folks especially) inside? 

✨Our Community Guidelines

We adhere strictly to our 10 community guidelines, including: 

→ We use inclusive language and introduce ourselves with our gender pronouns in every group coaching call and in Slack. 

→ We reject heteronormative cultural expectations. Including, but not limited to: assuming the gender identity of someone you’re dating, assuming you want monogamy, etc. 

→ We value many paths AND we do not tolerate homophobia, transphobia, racism of any kind. Instances of this behavior will result in a dismissal from The BB.

Inside this program, we are serious about creating an environment where the experience of the folks who hold marginalized identities is prioritized.  

 No matter who you love, this program will help you create a dating life that is confident, joyful-as-fuck, and that makes the right relationship inevitable. 

The Brazen Breakthrough will change your love life because it will teach you how to trust yourself, especially in your love life.

→ It will help you own EVERY preference and desire without apology.

→ It will give you a community of other single badasses who will celebrate the shit out of where and who you are. 

Inside The Brazen Breakthrough, you will create a confident and joyful-as-fuck dating life that makes the right relationship inevitable.

Members inside The Brazen Breakthrough right now range in age from 25 to 63.

If you think you’re too old, you’re not. 

If you think you’re too young, you’re not.

The thought that you’re “too old/too young” is just keeping you stuck from actually getting what you want as soon as possible. 

After coaching literally hundreds of people through The Brazen Breakthrough over the last 7 years, I can tell you that EVERY client is struggling with one of these two core issues: 

Either:

You consider yourself a “late bloomer” and don’t know where to start.

OR

You’ve been in the wrong relationship(s) and never want to settle again… 

SO I’ve designed every lesson, workbook, and coaching session to help you easefully overcome these struggle points so you can feel confident as hell in what you want and how to find it.

 With the strategy we teach inside The Brazen Breakthrough, you will attract the kind of feminist, emotionally intelligent men that you didn’t know existed. 

How?

💎 With our Essence Based Preferences strategy where you'll own EVERYTHING you want.

🔥 Then with our step-by-step Thank You More Please Challenge where I will coach you on exactly how to gather evidence that the right person exists for YOU. Every single day.

Those action steps, that courage, PLUS the in person dating plan alone will help you attract more than you thought possible.

WHAT YOU WANT EXISTS AND IS FOR YOU.

And with these new beliefs and action steps, the bonus is that you become a magnet for the best dates of your life. (Even if you've NEVER seen that what you want exists.)

That's exactly what happened for my client Stephanie. Who after a toxic relationship firmly didn't believe that the kind, progressive, funny, warm partner she desired existed.

Even though she didn't yet believe me 100%, she felt in her body that The Brazen Breakthrough was the right next step for her. So she said yes.

With our simple tools, mindset shifts, and proven action plan, she attracted the love of her life 1.5 years after joining The Brazen Breakthrough.

If you’re skeptical about investing in your love life again (or for the first time), know this:

✨ You've never been in THIS program before.

✨ You've never been coached by me before.

✨ You've never had feminist curriculum like this one before.

✨ You’ve never made courageous changes and taken messy, massive action like we do in this room.

✨ You've never experienced the support of the other badass feminist humans in this room.

I’ve had a client recently say that they invested in a manifestation course, coaching, therapy and that NOTHING has helped her dating life like The Brazen Breakthrough. 

This shit works, even if nothing else has.

The Brazen Breakthrough gets you the LOVE life results you crave. 

If therapy is a slow burn, The Brazen Breakthrough is an accelerator.

I built The Brazen Breakthrough 7 years ago mostly because my therapist hadn’t dated in 30 years. 

I love therapy, but I needed something directly for my dating life, and I didn’t have the time to ever settle again. 

We give the proven action steps, accountability, and coaching that therapists can't. With a proven, feminist, step-by-step process that is type-A as hell.

My client Michelle shared that she’d invested in a manifestation course, coaching, therapy and that NOTHING has helped her dating life like The Brazen Breakthrough. 

Clients regularly say that they get more from one group coaching session than they have in 6 years of therapy. 

We make all the self-work you've been doing over the last few years actionable for your LOVE life specifically. So you can center yourself, prioritize your desires, and start attracting the best dates of your life, fast.

Even if you've done lots of therapy, you've never had an action plan like we teach inside The BB. You've never received the coaching, support, and community like we have in this room.

That's why so many therapists have joined The Brazen Breakthrough for themselves.

Here is Liz's story--

"As a therapist, it was hard to give myself the time I needed to get what I wanted out of my dating life. So, I skimmed by and scrolled through apps which led to a cycle of disappointment that felt very tiring and wasn't getting me anywhere.

I was nervous to join. I am all about growth and doing the inside-out work.

Dating felt more vulnerable as if I should have already arrived. I knew I would have some shame to work through in this area of my life and it's vulnerable to ask for help with something that feels hard.

Dating brings up so much, and I really felt I had so much support through the weekly group meetings and the incredible action plan. It all really helped me process and move forward in my dating life.

I would say if this is something you know you need- DO IT. It was a big investment for me and because of that I put my time and energy into it and truly feel more clear, updated and empowered in my life.

Success now looks like: Showing up as I am, embodying my confidence in who I am and what I'm looking for in a dating relationship."

Liz met her now- girlfriend with the tools we teach inside The Brazen Breakthrough. 💜

She joined and made the right relationship inevitable. You can, too.